denial is a stage of grief; what is unconditional love?

 

Why do we grieve from losing things, people, places? What is it about human emotions? Wait! emotions in general?

Seriously, the five stages of grief are:

1. denial
2. anger
3. bargaining
4. depression
5. acceptance

what does it mean to accept our grief from losing something or a state of mind? some have cause so much judgements about other people in their lives and some even believe in religion that comes from God.

this is okay, but at what cost does this give the rest of the people that you haven't met but assume they are just like another that you met. Some don't even realize they judge another based on the fact that they are still in denial and bargaining between depression and anger and even denying they need to grieve.

Well, that's awesome that they have met friends and family and never lost anything in their lives. Wow! So, what makes someone not grieve and accept they been in denial and even think they never lost anything or anyone? This is basically up to them to accept who they are and no therapist, nurse, doctor, or clergy (from any religion) can guide them into their unconditional love that person brings with them.

I suggest for everyone to journal of their lives. You don't even have to go back and reread it because the power of writing allows the brain to concentrate as one writes or types out to process such things in a grammatical and logical format. Kinda like design a flowchart for a computer program. but, writing isn't just a serious of loops of conditional statements of either on or off or as a therapis once told me, you think in black and white. and then she ask me why i can't talk about my emotions. I don't think but emotionally forgive you my therapist for not accepting  my emotions when you ask me questions to get to know me and then, you ask me "who i am?," for over ten years.

Acceptance and forgiveness is a really unconditionally loving thing to do for everyone that hurts us. but, know this, that, you are only hurt because of the love that wasn't shown back. 

So what? get over it and love yourself unconditionally and forgive yourself and accept it. It's now time to find  more people to share experiences and knowledge with. maybe one day that person that did everything to try to manipulatively change who you are will.

Until then, write in a journal and if you can't figure out how or what to write, perhaps, the journal above from amazon may help.

 

Tips always welcomed and appreciated :)

 

Remember...

smile cause you're worth it :)

god bless

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